Series Part 5. When a Church Faces a Mental Health Crisis: Staying Calm, Staying Present, and Helping the Person Who Is in Danger
A crisis is not simply “someone having a hard week.” It is a situation where a person may be in immediate danger, has lost significant contact with reality, or cannot reliably keep themselves safe. Mental health crises can include suicidal thoughts, self-harm, psychosis, severe agitation, or a person becoming unable to care for themselves safely.
Common warning signs include talking about suicide, feeling trapped or hopeless, extreme mood swings, reckless behavior, withdrawal, sudden confusion, suspiciousness, hallucinations, or severely disorganized thinking.
Mental health challenges are present in every congregation, but many churches still feel uncertain about how to respond. This series is designed to help pastors, leaders, and members learn how to care well for people who are suffering—to think biblically, speak carefully, and act wisely. The aim is not to turn the church into a clinic, but to make our church a safer, wiser, and more compassionate place for people who are weary, anxious, or depressed, and for the people who love them.
The First Job of the Church Is to Stay Calm and Stay Present
When someone is in crisis, the church’s first job is not to fix everything. It is to stay calm and stay present.
Speak plainly. Listen carefully. Avoid arguing with a person about delusions or visions, since that usually increases fear rather than helping. If the person may hurt themselves or someone else, do not leave them alone and get urgent help right away.
We are not heroes in these moments. We are simply people who are willing to be there, to speak gently, and to get help.
What Not to Do in a Crisis
In crisis moments, it is easy to respond in ways that accidentally hurt more than help.
Do not:
- Shame the person.
- Minimize the seriousness of what is happening.
- Imply that a crisis is simply a lack of faith.
- Promise secrecy if safety is involved, because safety must come first.
- Give simplistic spiritual explanations for symptoms that may have medical, psychiatric, or trauma-related causes.
These responses can make the person feel more alone, more judged, and less safe.
When to Get Urgent Help
Call emergency services or a crisis line if the person is:
- Talking about suicide.
- Appears unable to care for basic needs.
- Hearing or seeing things that others do not.
- Extremely confused.
- Likely to act violently or dangerously.
In the United States, 988 is the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, and it can be used when someone is in emotional or mental health crisis. If the person is in immediate danger, emergency response is appropriate, not overreaction.
After the Crisis: Continuing to Care
Once immediate safety is addressed, the church should continue caring. That may include:
- Follow-up contact.
- Meals.
- Rides.
- Prayer.
- Help connecting to treatment.
- Support for family members who are also under stress.
The goal is not to “move on” quickly, but to help the person remain supported after the urgent moment passes. Crises do not end when the danger passes; they end when the person feels safe again, connected again, and supported again.
A Closing Invitation
We invite our church to learn how to carry each other’s burdens, especially the heavy ones that don’t go away quickly.
As you read this, think not just about crisis response as a procedure, but about the people in our church. Who is walking through a crisis right now? Who is in danger? Who needs someone to stay present, not just say the right thing?
We invite you to:
- Stay calm and stay present.
- Speak plainly and listen carefully.
- Get urgent help when safety is at risk.
- Continue to care after the crisis.
- Support caregivers and family members who are also under stress.
When we do this, we show people that they are not alone, that their struggle is not a moral failure, and that they belong in the church.
Articles in this Series to Help the Church Care Well:
- Part 1. When People Feel Ashamed About Their Mental Struggles: Creating a Safe Place in the Church
- Part 2. When Faith and Struggle Meet: How Christian Faith Can Help People Who Are Suffering Inside
- Part 3. Why Hidden Pain Matters in the Church: Learning to Care for People Bearing Heavy Burdens
- Part 4. Caring Well: The Difference Between Pastoral Care and Clinical Care
- Part 5. When a Church Faces a Mental Health Crisis: Staying Calm, Staying Present, and Helping the Person Who Is in Danger
- Part 6. When Someone Talks About Suicide, We Must Respond with Care, Not Judgment
- Part 7. Responding to Psychosis with Clarity and Compassion: Staying Present When Someone Is in Crisis
- Part 8. Responding to Trauma and Abuse with Presence and Care
- Part 9. When Addiction and Mental Struggle Meet: Helping Our Church Care for the Person, Not Just the Problem
- Part 10. A Church Policy That Makes Compassion Easier to Practice
- Part 11. Supporting Family Caregivers: Caring for the Ones Who Hold Everything Together
- Part 12. Neurodivergence in the Church: Welcoming People Who Are Wired Differently
- Part 13. Strength for the Weary: How the Word and Prayer Help Us Carry the Load
Further reading on this topic
- Warning Signs of Suicide – SAMHSA
- Understanding Psychosis – NIMH
- What to Do In a Crisis | NAMI
- Warning Signs and Risk Factors for Emotional Distress – SAMHSA
- What is Self-Harm? | SAMHSA
- 5 Action Steps to Help Someone Having Thoughts of Suicide – NIMH
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